“I will be forever grateful for the kindness and generosity of my Senegalese family. Locally, I am known as Moustapha Ba. Moustapha is another name for the prophet Muhamad, so it is a great honor. Ba is a Pulaar family name, but we spoke Wolof in our household. My host father Boubacar Ba, has the most wonderful smile. He is a retired tourist guide who speaks many languages. Before working each day, I used to sit together with him for a long time chatting and drinking kinkiliba tea. After lunch, I joined him for attaya. We talked about everything, including politics, religion, culture, and sports. He taught me many Wolof idioms which were crucial to my language and cultural learning. He also helped me facilitate trainings in the community on many occasions. My host mother Astou Faye is a strong, funny, and hardworking woman. She is from another ethnicity, the Sereers. An enterprising woman, every day she wakes up early to go to the market and purchase fish and vegetables. She brings the goods back to our neighborhood where she sells them to women in the neighborhood. Our front porch was always a lively spot for morning gossip! And thanks to her, we always had plenty of fish and vegetables in our bowl. She is also hands down, the best cook in Senegal. The Ba family is smaller than many Senegalese families. They have four children, Mamadou, Cheikh, Ibrahim, and Koura. They also take care of a grandson, Muhamad, and a niece, Astou Ndao (little Astou). They didn’t have much, but they accepted me as family and cared for me as if I were their own while I was in their home. I could never repay them for all that they did for me!”
- Quentin